Huffington Magazine Issue 48 | Page 43

THE GREASE TRAP goes out and hasn’t been on a date in a long time. He held up his iPhone. “This is my only form of entertainment,” he said, explaining that his grandmother bought it for him using funds she saved as the owner of a roadside restaurant in Ecuador. “It’s embarrassing to say she takes care of me,” he said, his voice rising. “It should be the other way around. It makes me feel like I’m not a man.” ‘JUST TO BE AHEAD’ Barrera grew up poor, but for a brief time in his childhood, his family seemed to have a shot at joining the middle class. In the late ‘90s, his father, one of 12 children, managed to rise to a managerial position at a Brooklyn supermarket. He saved enough money to put down a mortgage on a home. A few years later, Barrera tested into Brooklyn Tech, one of the best public schools in New York. Barrera loved computers, cars By the government’s definition, a married person with two kids who lives on $23,283 a year or less is poor. HUFFINGTON 05.12.13 and sophisticated machines of all kinds. He hoped to become a hightech mechanic or an engineer. But then his father fell behind on his mortgage payments and bought a laundromat in a gamble to keep the family afloat. The busi