Huffington Magazine Issue 42 | Page 30

Voices the new child that just joined your preschool class. Teach your child to go towards a child who is upset, instead of walking away. We must teach our boys what it truly means to be brave. How many of those young men in Steubenville knew in their sweet boy hearts that what was happening was wrong, but still remained silent? Teach your boys that bravery can be terrifying. Courage can be demanded of you at the most inopportune times. Let them know that your expectation is that they are brave enough to rise to the occasion. And show them how. We must not shy away from telling our sons the truth about sex. As parents, we need to worry about our sons being respectful of their sexual partners, not just about them getting someone pregnant. Our boys need to know that they will find themselves at a crossroads one night, or on multiple nights. Their body will be telling them one thing, and their partner may be telling them another. It is a young man’s responsibility to listen to his partner. Explain to your son what consent looks like (and doesn’t look like). Teach them to check in as they take the next step with someone. Teach them to KIM SIMON HUFFINGTON 03.31.13 sto