Huffington Magazine Issue 41 | Page 53

APPLE PICKING told police he targeted Megan after seeing her talking on the phone, according to court documents. Police say they connected Esters to another phone robbery in the area that day. Esters and a cousin who police say drove him from the crime scene have since been charged with Megan’s murder. They are being held at the St. Louis City Justice Center. Their attorneys said their clients were unavailable for interviews and declined to comment. Paul Boken lays blame for his daughter’s death not just on her killers, but also on an industry that he says has been slow to reduce the street value of stolen phones. “Phone manufacturers, including Apple, should have addressed this problem three or four years ago,” he said. “I don’t think they realized someone as special as Megan can lose her life over this.” Police later returned Megan’s iPhone to her father. He said he keeps it in a box at his home. Like everything that belonged to his daughter, he said he can’t bring himself to get rid of it. He keeps her bedroom the same way she left it. Last month, Megan’s former volleyball teammates at St. Louis University named HUFFINGTON 03.24.13 an award after her, citing “her fun-loving attitude, contagious laugh, servant leadership and humble demeanor.” When they gave Boken one of her jerseys, “I almost fell apart,” he said. Now, when Boken sees Megan’s friends and watches their lives “I T’S HARD, TO BE LIKE THIS FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE OVER A DAMN CELL PHONE.” unfold, he wonders what might have been. “As a father, you invest all of this time in your children,” he said. “You show them how to walk and throw a baseball and hit a volleyball. You watch them develop and take on life’s challenges. Then, all of a sudden, it’s over. That’s the hardest part. You don’t get to see the next 10 chapters of that book.” Megan’s story is not unique. As police and wireless providers have searched for solutions to phone thefts, the human toll exacted by often-violent robberies is rising. Last month, three peopl