Huffington Magazine Issue 38 | Page 5

LETTER FROM THE EDITOR funerals are anything but a natural end to life,” Kaleem writes. “Instead, they assert, death and mourning should be seen, smelled, touched and experienced.” We meet Alison and Doug Kirk, a Nashville couple whose 9-year-old daughter Caroline died after years of suffering from Niemann-Pick, a terminal disease that damages the brain, lungs and nervous system. When Caroline died, her parents washed her skin and hair in the bathtub and dressed her in a white communion dress, and then placed her body in her bedroom, near her favorite stuffed animals and books. Friends and family came to visit, sitting in the bedroom’s rocking chair, even stroking Caroline’s hair and face. After three days, her parents lifted her body into a simple pine box, and Caroline was buried in a bare country cemetery outside Nashville, in a ceremony with no formal religious overtones. “We had taken care of Caroline her whole life,” her mother said. “Why would we give her to someone else once she died?” Elsewhere in the issue, Ryan J. HUFFINGTON 03.03.13 Reilly checks in on one of President Obama’s original campaign promises: to close the Guantanamo Bay naval base and detention center in Cuba. “In the dark halls of Abu Ghraib and the detention cells of Guantanamo, we have compromised When our most precious Caroline died, values,” Obama said her parents in a 2007 speech. washed her Nearly six years skin and hair after Obama pledged in the bathtub to close it, Guantaand dressed namo is still operather in a white ing, with 166 people communion currently imprisoned and likely to dress, and remain there indefithen placed nitely. Meanwhile, her body in the once-urgent her bedroom.” need to close Guantanamo has diminished as stories of detainee abuse have faded, eclipsed by new concerns, like drones. As Reilly puts it, “The truth is that nobody is really in a hurry to close Guantanamo.” ARIANNA