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FREE FOR ALL schools,” but some larger ones weren’t always responsive. Still, transcripts are worked on extensively by certain upper school students with college hopes. Walter, a lower school kid with shaggy brown hair, said he thinks it “isn’t fair” that upper school kids can use screens whenever they want. If upper school is allowed screens, he said, then lower school should, too. “Do you want to use screens all the time?” An upper school girl asks him. “Like any time you want?” “Yeah,” Walter said. “Or upper school doesn’t get to use them at all.” “The upper and lower should have the same sort of rules, yes,” Sarah, a fast-talking upper school girl countered. “But if someone’s watching a lecture or typing a transcript, that’s very different than someone playing that dots game. Screens are not just screens.” The issue is not exactly resolved. It will likely come up again the following week. An hour later, the meeting ends. One advisor said he wishes there could be some sort of fight, just so I could see how it was resolved at HUFFINGTON 01.13.13 one of these meetings. “The wisdom that comes out of them figuring out what to do,” he said. “Why did you do this? What’s underlying this? The whole school gets together. It’s amazing.” Past arguments have been over gay slurs, name-calling and bullying, and were resolved through “NOBODY TOLD US TO LEARN ABOUT THESE THINGS. WE WANTED TO.” lengthy negotiations. Suffice it to say, some weeks a lot of meetings are called. But all the kids seem used to it, even th e ones who have only been there for a few months. Upper school student Sarah, a student at Brooklyn Free School for three months, said this is the first school where she’s felt fully comfortable to be herself. Like Graves, the former Albany Free School student, she said being able to choose your own classes and way of doing things just made more sense to her. “The biggest different is choice, and not being confined to 15 minutes of socialization a day,” Sarah