Huffington Magazine Issue 26 | Page 73

HUFFINGTON 12.09.12 OUT AT THE TIMES said, ‘We know you’ve been screwed, but don’t do anything rash. You have a long career ahead of you, and Rosenthal will be leaving soon.’” Peter Millones, an assistant professor at Columbia University School of Journalism, was at that time an assistant managing editor at The Times. He recalls hiring Meislin. “It didn’t occur to me to tell Rosenthal or anyone else that [Meislin] was gay,” he says. “I don’t recall why the decision was made to bring him back, but it would make sense [that it was because he was gay]. Abe was a tyrannical executive.” Rosenthal says the entire incident “never happened,” claiming that “this is the first time I’ve ever heard of that.” He also comments that “people who are used to being discriminated against will sometimes take certain acts as being discriminatory when they’re not.’’ NO MATTER HOW MUCH ACTIVISTS PROTESTED, ROSENTHAL REFUSED TO LET THE WORD GAY BE USED IN THE PAPER — even after 15 years of pressure — except in names of organizations or in quotes. Dudley Clendinen, who recently stepped down from a position as a managing editor at the Baltimore Sun, was a reporter at The Times in the early ’80s. “Abe had a dinner party at his home on Central Park West for me and [theater critic] Frank Rich when we joined The Times in 1980,” he recalls. “Part of the conversation that night was about The Times policy with regard to the use of the word homosexual instead of gay. I argued that homosexual was a clinical word that robbed people of their humanity. Abe didn’t agree. His attitude was that the general culture only saw the subject scientifically. The conversation went nowhere.” Rosenthal now says that he banned the word gay in the early ’70s because he “felt at that time that The Times should not use a word for political purposes until that word has become accepted as part of the language,” as if The Times is merely a barometer of public opinion and not also a powerful catalyst for change. How could the word be “accepted as part of the language” if The Times refused to acknowledge it? And wasn’t it equally “political” to not use the word? By not using gay, The Times held back a social movement, refusing to give it legitimacy. Rosenthal admits,