Huffington Magazine Issue 25 | Page 25

ANDREW LAM Voices HUFFINGTON 12.02.12 The Petraeus Scandal and the Untold Stories L ONG BEFORE COMING TO AMERICA, the first English phrase I ever uttered was, oddly enough, “No money, no honey.” The painted girls in impossibly tight, colorful miniskirts who strutted on the sidewalks near my school in downtown Saigon said it shamelessly, and loudly, as they plied their trades with the American GIs during the Vietnam War. It became an expression among us pubescent schoolboys. ¶ That childhood memory comes back now, decades later, as I think of the political scandal that engulfed our nation right after the U.S. presidential election, and how, incredibly, a little honey and a lot of amorous email missives could take down America’s most admired general, and threaten to ruin the career of yet another. ¶ Gen. David Petraeus, erstwhile CIA chief and U.S. commander of the Iraq theater, and one of the most respected military generals and tacticians in modern time, ILLUSTRATION BY DANIEL FISHEL Andrew Lam is the author of Perfume Dreams: Reflections on the Vietnamese Diaspora. His next book, Birds of Paradise Lost, is due out in 2013.