Huffington Magazine Issue 22 | Page 24

Voices CAROLYN EDGAR HUFFINGTON 11.11.12 Always Blaming the Parents WHEN THE NANNY of a wealthy Upper West Side family was accused of murdering two of her employer’s three children, the response from some was all too familiar: blame the mother. Commenters on sites all across the Internet have attacked the chil- ILLUSTRATION BY KYLE T. WEBSTER dren’s mother, Marina Krim, for hiring a nanny instead of caring for her three children without assistance. Responding to a recent article at The Daily Beast about the Krim murders, a commenter said, “Maybe parents ought to think long and hard about their choices and maybe raise their own Carolyn Edgar is a New York City lawyer and writer