Huffington Magazine Issue 18 | Page 83

YOU HAD ME @ LOL ble across a winky-face emoticon sent to a Twitter crush. And yet, the popularity of social dating implies that real connections can be brokered, at least at the start, virtually. Though Facebook stalking is nothing new, the skyrocketing popularity of niche social networking sites is fueling the rise of social dating by bringing people together over a shared interest, rather than a shared desire to date. Sites such as Instagram, which grew 17,319 percent be- SEARCHING FOR LOVE ON MATCHMAKING SITES IS NO MORE EFFECTIVE THAN TRYING TO PICK UP STRANGERS AT A BAR. HUFFINGTON 10.14.12 tween July 2011 and 2012, offer a place to digitally rub shoulders with like-minded strangers and, in the course of discovering a mutual love for Roaring Twenties nostalgia, find Mr. or Mrs. Right. “As our lives are spent more online, we date more online, too,” says Laurie Davis, the founder of online dating consultancy eFlirt Expert who met her her fiancé, also a dating guru, on Twitter. She notes she has many clients who are dating online, but choosing to forgo dating sites in favor of Facebook, Twitter and the like. “We live a lot of our social lives on Facebook, Twitter and sites like that, so since dating is inherently a part of our social life — it only seems natural to find love that way as well.” Yelp, A Love Story Four months after Rachel Grier, 38, was engaged to be married, she walked in on her fiancé with another woman. Devastated, Grier “went into daredevil mode.” She went sky diving, took pole-dancing lessons, and terrified herself on roller coasters at places she discovered and reviewed on Yelp, a customer-review website.