Huffington Magazine Issue 12-13 | Page 24

Enter WENDY GEORGE sive men, believe in the new world order. They have seen many movies where women are President. They have seen stories praising stay-at-home dads. But they don’t have many role models. Women had Mary Tyler Moore and Murphy Brown. Men are just beginning to have examples they can look to, in real life and in media. The husband in Up All Night started out as the doltish dad, but in the later episodes the writers allowed him to occupy the parental authority in the family. It’s not a zero sum game between his manhood and his parenting. He’s a great dad and his wife still finds him sexy.  So we’re seeing a transformation of modern marriage? College-educated women and non-collegeeducated women are both pulling ahead in the workplace, but that means very different things for them at home. For collegeeducated couples, divorce rates have dropped and people describe themselves as happier. I think that’s because no one feels trapped. Either part