How to Coach Yourself and Others Techniques For Coaching | Page 37

Identifying obstacles  If some person is involved – who is the most negative? For what reason?  What other circumstances effect you with regard to this matter? If necessary, would you be willing to have a look at these circumstances?  How determined are you to try to reach your goal? Transformation  What would be a step in the right direction?  What other possibilities do you have?  What further options are open to you?  What sort of things are there that could be done if you did not have to do them?  What more can be done?  What can you do to get yourself beyond these obstacles?  What do you first need to do/find out in order to move forward?  Who or what can help you to get what you want? Perspective questions  If you had an unlimited amount of time and money, what would you do?  If somebody else had the same problems or issues that you have, what kind of advice would you give him/her?  If your best friend were in your situation, what kind of advice would you give him/her?  If your child found himself in the same situation, then what would you advise? 345