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• There are dangers to be faced here, such as becoming stuck in a
certain routine and not accessing new creative energy.
6. THE MIDDLE PASSAGE
• This period can be described as almost a “second puberty” that brings
up a deep questioning of personal identity.
• It is a period where self doubt is common, as your assumptions of life
are challenged by experience.
• The recognition that many things you wanted to do are not yet
completed can be diffi cult to accept, along with the fi rst signs of
physical decline; the inevitability of getting older and the fact that you
will die at some stage.
• It can be a painful and emotional period. Some people respond by
indulging in escapist behavior such as: alcohol abuse, workaholism or
expensive hobbies.
INTERDEPENDENCE: From +- 40 years to …
7. THE PIONEERING STAGE
• Emergence from the crisis with new values and meaning can be an
uplifting experience. At this point some people make radical life
changes; new jobs or careers and approaching things with new
attitudes.
• Moments in life are more appreciated through a new attitude. • A
new-found freedom may bring new interests and strengths.
• One may fi nd an enhanced ability to bring “inner” and “outer” worlds
together, while incorporating the views of others.
• A sense of real self knowledge is brought about by the experience of
life.

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