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people you know now. But consider whether it would be helpful to make new contacts. Again, books and audios can be very supportive when you are looking to new ways of thinking. Finally, there is a difference between motivation and inspiration. Inspiration is getting in touch with our human spirit, whereas motivation is the driving force to move towards our goal. Inspiration can certainly help self motivation - and we can look outside ourselves for help with inspiration. So speakers like David McNally might help us feel inspired. It is then up to us whether to decide to be motivated to take action to achieve our goals. 1.5.9 GOAL MOTIVATION THEORY Understanding How To Increase Your Goals Motivation Key principles of goal motivation theory include the role of pain and pleasure motives. Goal motivation theory is based on the idea that all our actions are based on logical reasons - logical to us at any rate. If you can understand why you act as you do then you have a better chance of taking relevant actions that help you achieve your goals. There are two basic points to understand here: first, the link between our goals and our motives, and second, the importance of pain and pleasure motives. Let's start this review of goal motivation theory by examining the link between your goals and your motives. Gary Ryan Blair pictures the anatomy of goals as a triangle. The three points of the triangle stand for what why and how. The what is your goal. So let's say that you have a goal to write a book and get it published by 31 December next. 81