How to Coach Yourself and Others Popular Models for Coaching | Page 25

1.4.2 GROUNDRULES FOR PERSONAL COACHING 1. Coach and coachee have to get along: successful coaching is impossible if the parties involved do no get on with each other. 2. Coaching requires a safe environment, which is necessary for a collaboration based on trust and confidentiality. 3. Contrary to Mentoring, coaching assumes a formal and professional relationship. This implies regular contacts based on well structured sessions scheduled within an agreed coaching itinerary. 4. Clear Scope: Goals and methodology have to be agreed upon at the start of the coaching relationship. Progress has to be closely monitored and communicated during regular feedback-moments. 5. Coaching aims to lead to an increase of insight, motivation and efficiency on the part of the coachee and to improve their self-esteem through the implication of a supportive but professional relationship in which a facilitating style is used to stimulate the coachee to find their own answers and solutions to the challenges faced. 25