How to Coach Yourself and Others Popular Models for Coaching | Page 235

We still haven't found out a way of getting into people's minds and fully understand what their perception of reality is, this is unique to every single one of us. What we can do, is try to understand what our particular perception is to try and broaden our horizon. By consciously engaging in asking ourselves what something “means” to us, we can choose the route we want to take towards achieving a goal. Insight comes from this process of developing more and more ways of understanding ourselves. Plan The plan (P2) leads to the Target. It will be a process, not a series of choices. Every plan is actually a process, life is full of twist and turns so having something etched in stone is probably not in your best interest. You constantly have to revise, look at and course correct. While the shortest way to two points is a straight line, we all know that life is complicated and we should remain flexible enough to change course if needed. Pace Pay attention next time you're driving on the highway, if you notice you'll see distance markers every so often, these are meant to give an idea of how far you've gone. When you establish goals, you need to know and have a system to measure your progress. By when will you achieve this goal? Adapt or Act It is important to adequately review the Plan before seeking commitment. 237