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The model can and should be used flexibly. The model works best if attention is paid to Rogers' 'core conditions', the helpers approach to the speaker being based on genuineness, respect, and empathy, and if principles of good active listening are remembered throughout. The Egan model aims to help coachee address 3 main questions: 1. 2. 3. 'What is going on?' 'What do I want instead?' 'How might I get to what I want?' Not everyone needs to address all 3 questions, and at times people may move back into previously answered ones. For simplicity, we'll look at the model sequentially. However, the skilled helper will work with the speaker in all or any of the stages, and move back and forward, as appropriate. Diagram of the Model STAGE 1 STAGE 2 STAGE 3 Current Scenario Preferred Scenario Action Strategies 1a - The story (What's going on?) 2a - Possibilities (Ideally ,what do I want instead?) 3a Possible actions (How many ways are there?) 1b - Blind spots (What's really going on?) 2b - Change Agenda (SMART goals) 3b - Best fit strategies (What will work for me?) 179