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Why it happens
The key reason why the kipper is so two-faced (or many-faced) is that
their values with regard to integrity are largely non-existent. They
literally see nothing wrong in acting differently with different people
and may even be proud of their ability to act differently in different
situations, calling it something like 'style flexibility'.
Historically, the kipper may have been taught that 'this is how it works'.
They may also have a deeper background where trust was low and
abusive relationships common.
What to do about it
Make sure you always have something that the kipper needs. This will
keep their kinder face towards you.
If the kippe