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She follows the flirting triangle. Her eyes move between your eyes and your mouth – and linger increasingly on your
mouth. Yes, she’s thinking of kissing you. There’s also the corollary effect that this will make you want to kiss her
more.
She’ll stroke and show her intimate and erogenous zones.
Stroking her neck is autoerotic in itself – but does have the
added advantage of lifting her breasts and exposing (erotic
and pheromone-rich) armpits. Sitting, a display of her inner
thigh gives a cheeky invitation to think about going higher.
She’ll stroke her thigh – and face, and arms… She’ll turn
her wrists towards you – displaying and thinking about her
most highly sensitised areas.
She’ll check your body. It began with your face. Now, if
she’s really interested, you’ll see her gaze drifting lower.
You’ve past the first test and now she wants to see if you’re
really hot.
She’ll get closer – and she’ll draw you in closer too. She’ll
whisper, so that you’re obliged to draw close, and move her
face forwards into your intimate space.
She’ll push objects towards you. Again, she’s entering into
your space. If she leaves her hand there, touch it.
She’ll preen her clothes and hair and lick her lips – looking
her best for you.

Touch
Touching is a powerful, subtle and complex form of communication. In social situations, the language of touch can be
used to convey a surprising variety of messages. Different touches can be used to ex