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Minuchin. Why does she think that you are such a tough person? Because I think she feels that you are very
tough, and she needs to be flexible because you are so rigid. I don’t see you at all as rigid, I see you actually
quite flexible. How is that your wife feels that you are rigid, and not understanding?
Husband:

I don’t .know, a lot of times I lose my temper I guess, right? That’s probably why.

Wife: Yeah.
Minuchin: So what? So does she. I have seen you playing with your daughter here and I think you are soft and
flexible, and that you were playing in a rather nice and ac 6WF