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10.7 Inattention to use of language 10.8 Reflections 10.9 Polarised position 10.10 Sticking in one time frame 10.11 Agreeing / not challenging ideas 10.12 Ignoring information that contradicts hypothesis 10.13 Dismissing ideas 10.14 Inappropriate affect 10.15 Ignoring family affect 10.16 Ignoring difference 217 217 217 217 217 217 218 218 218 218 Appendixes Appendix 1: Sample Appointment Letter Appendix II: Sample Video Consent Form Appendix III: Sample Referrer letter Appendix IV: Post-assessment letter to referrer Appendix V: Closing letter to referrer 219 220 221 222 223 Illustrations Figure 1: Models of Therapeutic Change Tables Table 1: Perceptions that are helpful in achieving change 198