How to Coach Yourself and Others Coaching Families | Page 189

Summary of Dimension Concepts Problem-solving Two types of problems instrumental and affective Seven stages to the process 1. Identification of the problem 2. Communication of the problem to the appropriate person(s) 3. Development of action alternatives 4. Decision of one alternative 5. Action 6. Monitoring the action 7. Evaluation of success Postulated Most effective when all seven stages are carried out. Least effective when cannot identify problem (stop before step 1) Communication Instrumental and affective areas Two independent dimensions 1. Clear and Direct 2. Clear and Indirect 3. Masked and Direct 4. Masked and Indirect Postulated Most effective: clear and direct. - Least effective: masked and indirect Roles Two family function types -necessary and other Two areas of family functions -instrumental and affective 1. Provision of Resources B. Affective 1. Nurturance and Support 2. Adult Sexual Gratification C. Mixed 1. Life Skills Development 2. Systems Maintenance and management Other family functions: -adaptive and maladaptive Role functioning is assessed by considering how the family allocates responsibilities and handles accountability for them. Postulated Most effective when all necessary family functions have clear allocation to reasonable individuals(s), and accountability built in. Least effective when necessary family functions are not addressed and/or allocation and accountability not maintained. Affective Responsiveness Two groupings -welfare emotions and emergency emotions Postulated Most effective when full range of responses are appropriate in amount and quality to stimulus. - Least effective when very narrow range (one or two affects only) and/or amount and quality is distorted, given the context 1. Absence of involvement 2. Involvement devoid of feelings 3. Narcissistic involvement 4. Empathic involvement 5. Over-involvement 6. Symbiotic involvement Postulated Most effective: empathic involvement. - Least effective: -symbiotic and absence of involvement Behavior Control Applies to three situations 1. Dangerous situations 2. Meeting and expressing psychobiological needs and drives (eating, drinking, sleeping, eliminating, sex and aggression) 3. Interpersonal socializing behaviour inside and outside the family Standard and latitude of acceptable behavior determined by four styles 1. Rigid 2. Flexible 3. Laissez-faire 4. Chaotic To maintain the style, various techniques are used and implemented under role functions (systems maintenance and management) Postulated Most effective: flexible behavior control. Least effective: chaotic behaviour control Necessary family function groupings A. Instrumental Affective Involvement Six styles identified 189