How to Coach Yourself and Others Coaching Families | Page 149

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Cut games, straighten transactions.
Self-manifestation (congruence) analysis.
Model analysis of which models have impacted early on.
Expand experiencing and choice-making.
Parts party: awareness and exercise of mind and body.
Sculpting (group posture) technique.
Labeling assets.
Use of drama, metaphor, art, stories, self.

Criteria for termination:
When family members can complete transactions, check, ask; can interpret hostility; can see how others see
them; can see how they see themselves; can tell each other how he manifests himself; can tell other member
what he hopes, fears, expects from the other; can disagree; can make choices; can learn through practice;
can free selves from harmful effects of past models; can give a clear message, be congruent.

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