How to Coach Yourself and Others Better Coaching Through Visualisation | Page 215

Visual + Action…Board BY GRETCHEN FOGELSTROM Next Saturday I am getting together with friends and we are planning on creating Vision Boards. So in preparation, as I have not done this before, I thought it would be interesting to learn more about the psychology of this act and what others are saying out there. This morning I have been doing a bit of research and it seems that ONLY visualizing, dreaming, and thinking positive thoughts may actually lull us into non-doing, sitting back and waiting…taking the easy road, all to find that we are still dreaming of what we want rather than achieving the outcome we envision. Digging a bit deeper I also found that taking action without having a goal, the big dream, or a vision of what the result will be is also a detriment to getting what or where we want to be as we are not focused. Over the last couple of weeks I have been slowly reading through “The Happiness Project” by Gretchen Rubin. I have found it very inspiring, even though my life and circumstances are quite different from her’s. I too feel happy but want to be happier. In “The Happiness Project”, she outlines how making specific, small tasks a regular habit is very important. From getting in at least 30 minutes a day with your heart-rate elevated to a 10 minute nightly “tidy” up of the house – whatever works for you of course, but the focus is on the small. Small things that make a big difference de-cluttering your mind and energizing your body… more happiness. I like this way of thinking as I can implement my list more easily. Having the big goal of losing 20lbs is, well, depressing. But getting my heart-rate up for 30 minutes a day is doable. 215