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6. How to Be Your Own Hero By Saleem Rana 6.1 “What do you want to be?” This is a deep question that we often ignore. We are so busy caught up in making a living that we forget we have the power to design a life. We forget the possibility that at any moment we can turn everything around and become an outrageous success in life. Most people opt for the default choice of mediocrity. Yet this is not a pleasant choice. Nor does it provide more approval, control or safety than risking the idea of following your dreams. When you fail to aspire to be anything, your life rings hollow with the pain of feeling unfulfilled. The main obstacle people encounter in following this line of thought is how to set it up. While the dreaming and the intending can come to you with a little bit of effort to overcome your resistance, the challenge is in how to start. 107