# 9 Mindset / Does not put pressure on the outcome :
This has a HUGE shift in the dynamics of approaching women and attracting women . When a woman feels as though you are not desperate to rush things so that you can be together , then she will honor and respect this and be even more attracted to you . It ’ s not to say you ’ re going to come in with this “ player ” mentality and say , “ I don ’ t need you , I don ’ t want you , I ’ m so cool .” No , it ’ s about your willingness to take the time to cultivate something good for both of you . By doing this , you become a leader and women are attracted to a man that can lead !
# 10 Builds Sexual Tension :
Men , this is significant ! If you hold out on sex with a woman and show that you want to see where this goes without jumping in too fast , you will score some HUGE brownie points .
Bonus Tip : Has Style ! The reason I left this as a bonus tip is that I personally believe everyone attracts different people and they have their own tastes . So choose your own personal style and make sure you present yourself in a way that makes you feel confident . Not everyone is going to want to wear urban chic . You might be a man that likes to ski and do outdoorsy things . Then keep up to date with your “ lumberjack ” style . You might be a hippie and not like to wear pointy dress shoes . Well , then make sure you smell great , have clean clothes and keep up with your bohemian style . This is what I mean about presenting yourself well . Own your look and be confident ! Though I must say , urban street style and business style are two of my personal favorites , paired with a good cologne !