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A SAMARADHANAM INCIDENT
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and when she saw her daughter-in-law completely shorn,
she stood motionless and dumbfounded for a moment, and
then, flying into a fit of anger, overwhelmed me with curses
and insults, which I bore patiently without uttering a
word, for I soon began to feel that I richly deserved them.
The villain of a barber, in his turn, took a mischievous
pleasure in telling everybody of the incident, until I became
Slanderous people, improving
the general laughing-stock.
on his story, were not slow in insinuating that the object
of my having my wife's head shaved was to punish her for
her infidelity. Crowds gathered about the door of my
house, and even an ass was brought to carry the supposed
adulteress through the streets in the manner usual on such
occasions.
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report of the affair soon reached the ears of my wife's
relatives, who hastened to inquire what was the matter.
You can easily imagine the terrible hubbub and trouble
they made at the sight of their unfortunate daughter.
They immediately took her away with them, travelling at
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night that she might be spared the shame of being exposed
to public view in so humiliating a condition, and they kept
her for four years without coming to terms of any kind
with me, though at length they restored her to me.
This unfortunate incident made me miss the samara-
dhanam, for which I had been preparing by a three days'
fast.
I was all the more chagrined to find afterwards that
it was a most sumptuous feast, and that ghee, among other
good things, had been profusely served. A fortnight after-
wards another samaradhanam was announced, which I had
the imprudence to attend.
I was greeted with howls from
more than eight hundred Brahmins who had assembled
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there, and
lishing the
who, seizing
name
me by
force, insisted
of the accomplice of
my
on
my
pub-
wife's guilt, in
order that he might be prosecuted and punished according
to the rigid rules of the caste.
I solemnly asserted that
I was myself the guilty party, and explained to them all
the true motive that induced me to act in such a manner.
My hearers were immensely surprised at what I told them,
and, looking at each other, at last exclaimed
"Is it
possible that any married woman who has not violated
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the laws of honour should have her head shaved 1
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