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about not becoming a lawyer? Dr. Adetosoye: None at all. HimPower: What policies have you championed in your role and what has been the impact? Dr. Adetosoye: In my work over the years in public health, I have worked with several organi- zations and agencies to champion health policies that include but are not limited to: proper birth spacing and family planning among women in rural Ghana (increasing quality of life for mothers and reducing mortality among women and newborns); ensuring the safety net. HimPower: What is next for you? Dr. Adetosoye: Charting a new course in my life where I dedicate my spare time to improving the quality of the lives of vulner- able children here at home and abroad. I plan to start here and see where God takes me. I have a heart for orphans. I recently incorporated a non-profit called Life to Kids, Inc. and we are eagerly awaiting 501(c)3 determination from the IRS so that we can connect compassionate people with children in desperate need of life improve- ment and aid. We trust God to direct so 10  HimPower May 2017 that we can make an impact. HimPower: We understand you had some personal chal- lenges in having your own healthy child. How did you cope with losing one baby and the prospects of having a second with developmental chal- lenges? Dr. Adetosoye: It was very diffi- cult. I had initially conceived without a problem, but 20 weeks later, I lost the pregnancy. I was so heartbroken. I had just had the ultra- sound that showed she was a girl, which was exactly what I had prayed for. After the loss, I was trying to conceive immediately. I didn’t want to lose the amazing, wonderful feeling of pregnancy, carrying the life of another human being inside of me. I tried every month­ — bought the ovulation predictor tests, the “natural”, “non-sperm killing” lubricants­ — and yet, every month, that period showed up! Almost to the day, I conceived a year later, with a due date four days later than my initial pregnancy. Then, I was told my unborn son had a very high risk of being born with Down syndrome. I felt tremendous pressure, but neither conven- tional wisdom nor the medical community