HIMPower Magazine HimPower June 2017 | Page 32

PERSONAL EMPOWERMENT 5 Things to Expect When You Say, “I’m Gonna to Do Better” by DiAnne Malone H ave you ever re-evaluated the terms of your career paths, friend- ships, boo-thang, marriage, church membership, ministry appoints, friends, enemies and frienemies and said to yourself, “I’ve gotta do better with that.” Over the past couple of year I’ve been in that space. And I don’t mean just fronting, like when I see a Facebook meme and I’m all on some “Ah, yes I need to eval- 32  HimPower June 2017 uate the people in my space and clean out the ones that leave trash behind.” No, I went a little deeper. I really make the effort to look at things from as many perspectives as my little mind would allow and decide that I would do better in my stewardship over certain relationships. Can you say fail? Not one. Not two. Many times. Here’s the thing. As soon as you say in