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We work on the process of changing, not in absence of the pain but despite the pain.
in the first several chapters of Genesis. Healthy families also are the foundation of an orderly society. It is of interest that after Adam and Eve violated God’ s law that psychological and behavioral problems appeared. They experienced shame and covered themselves. They experienced fear and engaged in avoidance behavior. Conflict emerged. Their oldest son became jealous and murdered their younger son. Now, in my opinion, it is a mistake to attribute every emotional problem directly to a sinful attitude or behavior, as I previously stated. However, all emotional disturbances are at least indirectly attributable to our human nature, which has the tainting of original sin. To circle back to your question, God’ s plan is for us to submit to his authority for redemption and healing in our families.
Question: So, if a Christian prefers to be seen by a Christian mental health professional, how does one start the process or if you want to encourage a loved one to be seen by a Christian mental health professional, where does one start the process?
Dr. Ridley: A number of mental health providers advertise themselves as Christians. They tend to cluster in major urban areas. However, you can find them in smaller communities as well but may have to make more of an effort to find them. A good resource is Psychology Today on the internet. Look up Christian therapists.

We work on the process of changing, not in absence of the pain but despite the pain.

Question: Can you share an example of an integrated theology and psychology message? One that might stimulate reflection, meditation, and equip Christians to encourage one another around issues related to mental health and mental well-being?
Dr. Ridley: The idea of the integration of theology and psychology is often misunderstood. There are a wide range of theological perspectives and psychological theories. Some are sound; others are more speculative. We should ask ourselves, what theological perspectives are we attempting to integrate with which psychological perspectives? I believe that biblical principles based on sound theology are compatible with sound theory and science in psychology. The purpose of this integration is to explain how we function in alignment God’ s created order.
For instance, moderation is a biblical principle that is consistent with a proven psychological finding. It aligns with the principle of stress and performance. When our stressors are too many, too prolonged, or too intense, we exceed our natural limits, and our stress becomes distress. This goes against created order, and begin to have adverse physical and psychological reactions.
Question: How do you integrate Christian principles into counseling therapy?
Dr. Ridley: The key word in your ques-
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