husband is a man with deep thoughts and
an appetite for truth. He’s really funny
about knowing what is factual. When we
go to the movies, he will do his research
so that he can compare what was factual
and what Hollywood
fabricated! He keeps
me grounded because I
am highly emotional. I
tend to operate on my
feelings and not always
the facts. He sees life
in black and white—so
he’s not so distracted by
minor details. I see life
in pastel colors and I
scribble scrabble out of
the lines! I make his life
exciting and he makes
sure that I don’t run
into walls! We’re a great
team!
HimPower: How did
you meet this special
guy and other half to
your team?
K. McCain: I met Jarrett at church, actu-
ally. We were 24. He had these long messy
dreadlocks and, although I was in a place
where I was seeking Jesus sincerely, I still
had some vanity issues and I ignored Jarrett
for the longest time because he wasn’t very
clean cut. But Jarrett was patient with me,
he watched me a lot—even when I wasn’t
paying him any attention. We eventually
became friends and God was renewing my
mind about how to love my self and others
in a healthy and humbled way. The closer I
got to God the more I began to see people’s
hearts and not just their appearances. As we
began to grow in our friendship, I started
to really admire how sincere Jarrett was in
living for Jesus. He
would raise his hands
in church in such an
awkward way that I
thought was really cute.
He wasn’t pretending
or preforming, he
was just very honest
about who he was and
where he desired God
to take him. I really
respect that about my
husband—his authen-
ticity and genuine
heart. Me being a
Pastor’s child, I knew
a lot about the Bible in
my head, but I loved
how Jarrett was prac-
ticing the Bible from
his heart. He inspired
me to want to grow more in Christ. I think
some people don’t realize that—they think
I was the one to encourage Jarrett’s faith,
but really, it was the other way around. I
saw God begin to move in his life and I
saw these beautiful changes in him that I
wanted for myself. One Sunday, in 2010,
Jarrett came to church in a suit and a fresh
hair cut and that was the beginning of the
end for me.
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