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2.9 LGBTQI + and people in particularly vulnerable situations 61 2.10 Trauma and resilience 62
3 . Useful steps and tools - how to support a male survivors
65
3.1 Identification and signs of possible trauma - what helpers should look out for
66
3.2 How to meet the survivor ?
67
3.3 The toolbox
70
3.4 What matters when working with a survivor
82
3.5 Use of stories and metaphors when working with survivors
83
3.6 Using tools to help the survivors in our five stories
86
3.7 Reporting abuse and violations
94
3.8 Working with the family and the survivor ’ s social network and communities
95
3.9 Thoughts and hopes for the future
97
4 . How to help the helper
99
4.1 Boundaries and demarcation
100
4.2 Secondary trauma
101
4.3 Compassion fatigue
101
4.4 Warning signals that may occur after a long period of being a helper
101
4.5 Prevention of secondary trauma and compassion fatigue
102
4.6 What can the helpers do themselves ?
103
4.7 What can the workplace do ?
104
Appendix 1 . Exercises 105
Appendix 2 . Further reading 114
Appendix 3 Contributors 117
Endnotes 118