108 in her head , that it was her well-groomed , toned body that was to blame for everything . Alina feels that the world is a dangerous place and that she is dirty and unwanted . She believes that after what happened she will never have friends nor family , because her parents told her so .
This story became known during the investigation of other crimes . At the first meeting with the parents , the child ’ s father behaved aggressively and said that this had not happen , and when the video recording was shown , he denied that it was his child , and yelled at the helper . After 2 hours of communication , the father calmed down by hearing stories about other children . The helper also made him understand that the child was not to blame for being violated . After that , permission was obtained to meet with Alina . Contact was established between the helper and the child through common interest in dance . The helper managed to create a safe space with caring and trust . Alina opened up told about everything that Bohdan did to her . The helper explained that not all people are bad , and she shouldn ’ t close in on herself . The helper also explained that her parents were just concerned about her and that ’ s why they said unpleasant things , but they love her very much and worry about her . The parents were told the importance of Alina visiting a psychologist and working through the past trauma .
After some time , Bohdan was brought to justice . Alina , who underwent therapy and was happy that Bohdan could not hurt anyone again . She was happy about her achievements , her friends and travels .
Reactions and symptoms :
• Withdrawal / isolation
• Loss of appetite
• Refusal of doing activities
• Association of body and self as a whole as something dirty
• Feeling of disrespect for oneself
• Lost sense of security and trust in people .
Tools that help :
• Dialogue in the broadest sense of the word
• To make clear the uniqueness of each person and the fact that a person should be respected simply for what she is
• Make it clear that the child is never to blame .
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