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For advertising information visit www.samplerpublications.com or call 859.225.4466 | January 2016 Benefits of Counseling Many people respond to therapy for problems of all types By Jamie Lober, Staff Writer People of all ages are taking advantage of local counseling services. “People come to us for a variety of reasons, including academic stress, the transition into college and figuring out how to prepare for their classes,” said Dr. Megan Marks, senior staff psychologist and outreach coordinator at the University of Kentucky Counseling Center. “[They come] for personal reasons, like transitioning away from home or families, which for some is actually a good thing if they have a difficult home life. Or they may be coming to discuss relationship issues.” Other reasons people seek counseling include depression, anxiety and serious mental health concerns. “Anxiety is actually the No. 1 concern among college students currently,” Marks said. Who is a good candidate for counseling? “Counseling is for folks who have started to notice they are not feeling like themselves, or maybe some specific incidence happened in their lives that is impacting either their personal relationships, work or academic life,” said Marks. “It takes strength and courage to come in for therapy. I want folks to know therapy is effective. We can help people feel better, and they do not have to suffer alone.” The center offers individual as well as group counseling. “Group services are eight-week programs that use a lot of the tenets of acceptance and com- mitment therapy,” Marks said. “We have a lot of relaxation workshops to help with anxiety and a cognitive behavioral therapy to help people understand the root of their anxiety, whether it is generalized or social. Then we help them cope.” Stress is a reality in everyone’s life, and there is no shame in getting help to deal with it. “A lot of folks feel ashamed if they think they cannot handle a life stressor, whether it is a relationship ending or the loss of a loved one,” said Marks. “One way to counteract shame is to talk about what is going on, so having a therapist that can help you navigate and problem solve can help with reducing shame.” It is essential to find the format that makes you feel the most comfortable. “Group therapy can be really helpful for understanding [you] are not the only one going through these concerns,” Marks said. “It will help normalize what people are going through. Therapy can help people get an understanding of their behavioral and mental health and the roots of their symptoms.” People also learn to identify and work with their triggers and stressors, finding strength, resilience and new coping skills. Everyone can benefit from counseling. “People worry their problems are too small or too big for the counseling center or if their problem can & L IBERTYR IDGE Senior Living Community A Non-Profit Faith-Based Community WE OFFER: • Assisted Living Apartments • Memory Care Apartments • Independent Living Garden Homes 39 be helped with counseling,” Marks said. “Most people who engage in therapy will experience benefits within about six sessions and then feel they are okay without therapy.” Therapy is advantageous for overall wellbeing. “We can help folks find balance and sleep and we can help with overall personal health,” Marks said. “Therapy often leads to a reduction in their symptoms.” Issues change at different points in people’s lives. “In marriages, money, sex and in-laws tend to be some of the common areas of conflict,” Marks said. “With students it is more about values and communication patterns.” For optimum mental health, you want to be mindful of your lifestyle choices and keep balance in your life. “How we take care of our bodies impacts general mental health,” Marks said. “For instance, sleep allows us to cope with everyday life stressors better. Through exercising, endorphins help overall mood. Play and laughter are important to help us connect with others.” All services at the center are confidential unless clients indicate they are at eminent risk of hurting themselves or others. For more information, call (859) 257-8701. 859.543.9449 www.libertyridge.com Come stay with us for