Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 7, Special Annual Issue, 15 June 2023 | Page 149

There is no need to stay in a relationship if it does not bring
positivity into your life . Your partner could be great , but they are perfect for you only if they make you feel happy and content . Please don ’ t sacriYce your happiness as that is more important than any relationship .
26 . No one likes this person for you
Okay , ever wondered why your family and friends seem to dislike the person you love ? It is nothing personal , but they are seeing something with this person that doesn ’ t feel right . How many times did you defend your partner with them and only to end up thinking , are my family and friends right all along ?
27 . They are irresponsible
How is your partner ? Does this person know their responsibility as a partner , husband or wife , and even parent ?
Do you know deep inside that your partner is irresponsible ? If yes , it ’ s a sure red flag in choosing a partner . Think of it , would you want to be in this type of relationship ?
28 . Threats
Does your partner threaten you in any way if they do not get their way ? Threatening to damage property , threatening suicide , or threatening physical violence against you or others is a sure-shot relationship red Eag .
29 . Lack of respect for personal or sexual boundaries
If your partner lacks respect for personal and sexual boundaries , it is a relationship red flags .
Requiring passcodes for personal devices , checking emails , text messages , and voicemails , performing sexual acts after you have said “ no ” and that you do not like it , and similar acts are red flags in marriage or relationship .
30 . You are not on the same page when it comes to commitment
They ’ ve told you from the start that they are against the institution of marriage . But you have your love-glasses on and are convinced you can change them .
After all , you ’ ve seen this happen with your best friend ’ s relationship ( even though that marriage seems to be on the relationship ( even though that