It is through this practice of conscious union that we can reach the next stage of soulful union .
3 . The Soulful Union
There ’ s a beautiful term in the Sanskrit Tantric scriptures known as “ Maithuna ” which literally translates to “ sexual union .” Maithuna is one of Tantra ’ s most important teachings as it makes use of conscious “ sexual intensity ” as a ladder that ascends to greater heights of intensity , focusing upon the illumination of the soul rather than solely on physical sexual pleasure . The sexual urge derives its strength from the body and our emotions , and by itself is not powerful enough to lift us to new levels of conscious awareness . It is Tantric sex that helps us to experience a true sexual Soulful Union by helping us to embody our Soul . This type of sex can only be described as a feeling of boundless pure bliss , warmth and identity-merging ( or ego death ) especially during orgasm .
If you would like to experience Soulful Union via spiritual sex , here are some recommendations :
• Stay celibate for as long as you can . This will increase your sexual energy so that you can learn to channel it . You may feel a tingling sensation in your lower back , this is your kundalini energy which assists in the experience of Unity .
• Set aside time to dedicate only to your partner . Create a sensual space with candles , soft ethnic music , silken robes , aphrodisiac fragrances , and so forth .
• Sit in front of each other and lightly move your hands over your partner ’ s body ( to awaken their nerves ). Allow your soft strokes to tingle through their body , but don ’ t allow your hands to pass over their erogenous zones ( nipples , penis , etc .), only near them . Prolong this state of arousal for as long as desired .
• Sit in each other ’ s lap ( called the “ yab-yum ” position ) and breathe each other ’ s breath . This allows both of you to consciously harmonise with each other .
• Maintain eye-contact throughout intercourse . Witnessing the act of love-making allows you to stay present and see something of immense beauty .