needed .
So why in relationship the need for nurturing , care , love , time investment , emotional investment , and most of all honesty is such difficult thing to understand .
But when it comes to their day today life they just do not see any need , or are not motivated enough to take initiative to change .
Have very clear idea of , ‘ course ’ - real idea ……. and then put it into practice …
Now comes the most important part . Listen to your partner what s / he need to say . What is their need . If you are full of yourself and other person just does not matter ….. you or relationship or both are done for ….
You can not build a business , mission or even a successful talk or presentation without paying attention to who your audience are and what they want or what would appeal to them .
Then how can you be doing anything right without any consideration what exactly your partner want . You may have done everything you think is right but if it is not what they need , your efforts are like providing painkillers when the person actually has fever . And result !! don ' t even ask , it ….. is as bad as it could be in the situation of mixed up medication .
You - frustrated
her / Him - hurt , lonely and really in bad shape .
Communicate : please ask what a person needs .
Listen …. Yes pay attention and really listen ..
Do the needful : Yes ultimately it all boils down to action .
Do it …… ( Yes !! that too ,) but most of all what you are asked for :))