our own good , or we can ‘ settle ’ for less than what we may truly desire . Either way our intuition and soul know our choice . The choices we make bring about the experiences that match that choice , be it in the long or short-term .
For most people , at some point in their life they have ‘ settled ’ for someone who was not really what they wanted in the relationship sector of their life . As humans we do this because of the dislike and / or fear of being ‘ alone ’. We would rather be in a relationship with an obviously unsuitable partner than spend our lives as what we perceive to be ‘ alone ’. When we do this we are ‘ settling ’. When we choose to stay in an unfixable relationship or situation , at some point the inevitable moment of ‘ truth ’ comes to light . Your intuition and inner wisdom always knows what is right for you , and when you go against your own inner-truths eventually something has got to give somewhere .
Whether you settle for less than you want in any area of your life , the knowledge that you have compromised your own intuitive truth and inner-knowing you will consciously or unconsciously sabotage your choice . It will not feel comfortable to your soul , and this will bring eventually force change .
Your soul will not allow you to live with the pain of self-betrayal and eventually an outlet for that pain will be found . This may manifest in the form of an addiction , an unsuitable partner choice , depression , resentment ... any number of negative emotion and / or behaviour .
This negative behaviour is a sign that the psyche is deliberately trying to get your attention in order to break out of the situation . The consciousself may feel too overwhelmed , ‘ stuck ’ or too frightened to take charge of the situation directly , so you covertly take these steps through displays and feelings of anger , becoming depressed or taking your frustrations out through addictions of all kinds . It is a very loud indicator that a choice you have make , or choices that you are currently making , do not reflect your true soul ’ s desire and you have settled for less than what you truly desire , want or need .