FROM THE DESK
सन्न्यासस्तु महाबाहो दुःखमाप्तुमयोगतः । योगयुक्तो मुिनब्रर्ह्म निचरेणािधगच्छित ॥
Perfect renunciation ( karm sanyās ) is difficult to attain without performing work in devotion ( karm yog ), O mighty-armed Arjun , but the sage who is adept in karm yog quickly attains the Supreme .
( Srimadbhagvat Geeta : Chapter 5 Verse 6 )
Lets share another query here , ……..
Is that right a boy meet his x when he is in love already ?
Let me ask a question does your current girl friend knows about it and comfortable with the idea ?
What are the dynamics ? Is your ex has already moved on and has another boyfriend ?
Is it a work related meetings or some kind of emergency ? If not then do not meet your ex just casually . As a therapist I know , what kind of complications it could lead .
Why did your break up happened with your first gf at first place . And why you need to meet her now ? Healthy friendship between ex needs few pointers .
1 Amount of time after break up is really long . 2 Both have moved on and are in a very happy relationship with their current spouses . 3 both spouses are part of your friendship and it is not very frequent . 4 Your meeting to each other is work related or chance encounter or planned with your respective spouses .