Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 5, Issue 1, 1 July 2020 | Page 30

5. What Stands In The Way of Me Finding Love? Remember, this isn’t about trying to make sense of another person or about changing the way someone feels about you, this is about your own vibration, which either attracts or repels people from you. People can pick up on your intentions and if they feel you truly care about their feelings and happiness, they will enjoy your company. Often we get stuck thinking about how to get what we want, and the tarot helps us shift to think about what we can give so everything else will fall into place. Close-Ended Questions About Love: These types of questions are not as highly recommended, as the future is not written in stone. Therefore, it’s hard for our intuition to access these answers. It’s also potentially going to keep you from taking responsibility for your energy and even seeing how wonderful your life can be when you put all your energy into being the brightest light you can be. 6. Is X Attracted To Me? It’s best not to ask how someone feels about you. It’s better to ask the cards if this person is a good area to focus your energy. Even if someone is attracted to you, it doesn’t mean it’s in alignment with your soul. Just because we could date someone doesn’t mean we should. Also, it would be more valuable (and efficient) to ask the person how they feel about you directly! 7. Is It Time To Let Go of X? Asking a question like this would be better phrased in your mind as an open-ended question, such as what emotions can I expect if I let go of this