Healing and hypnotherapy Volume 4, Special Mega Annual Issue , 15 June 2020 | Page 62

… and I’m sure there are many other benefits I haven’t mentioned here. For something so basic, this list shows a stunning array of benefits which virtually anyone can receive! All we need to do is learn how to make journaling a daily practice. How to Start Journaling My love affair with journaling started at the young age of 10. I think the first ever journal entry I wrote was about my goldfish who had died and how sad I was. Being a sensitive introvert, recording my thoughts just seemed to come naturally to me as it allowed me to process what I was going through. Journaling was also a private space to open my mind and heart and share what I was too shy to tell others. In my teenage years, I journaled each and every day without fail, and it was a lifesaver. Journaling was probably the number one thing that got me through all of the depression, fear insecurity, and confusion of growing up – particularly during my process ofspritual awakening and the turmoil of separation from my family. As I’ve matured, I now feel much more comfortable sharing my thoughts and feelings publicly (through this website), but I do still record private thoughts and feelings every few weeks or so. To me, journaling has been one of the most powerful instruments for mental, emotional, and spiritual growth I have ever used. Without this daily practice, I don’t think I would have ever learned half of what I know now. But journaling is not all sunshine and roses: it can be misused. For example, when approached in the wrong way, journaling can lead to excessive selfabsorption and wallowing in self pity. It’s important to take a structured and solution-oriented approach to recording your thoughts, otherwise, you could be doing more harm than good. I have made the mistake of using journaling as a vehicle for blame and self-justification before, so be careful of using journaling solely for the purpose of ranting and raving without true selfanalysis. When approached in a healthy way, journaling can lead to decreased emotional, reactivity more mindfulness, tolerance, understanding, and ultimately improved relationships both with yourself and other people. In this way, journaling helps you to let go of emotional and mental suffering and feel