Healing and hypnotherapy Volume 4, Special Mega Annual Issue , 15 June 2020 | Page 39

You can use the Tarot to get clear on your relationship needs and deal

breakers. Even a single-card draw focused on this question could offer you a
ton of insight. For each card you pull in answer to this question, write down
statements related to each card that affirm something you need in a
relationship. It’s not bad to want to be physically attracted to your partner or to
want a partner who has already established stability in their life.
If you’re working with a larger spread, again, consider the story the cards are
coming together to tell. Setting standards for how you want to be treated in
love is necessary!
Read Tarot Regularly (Weekly or Even Daily!)
Consistency is key when working with Tarot. Over time, you’ll notice you
develop a unique relationship with your Tarot deck as you bond with it. Treat it
with love and care and it will offer you huge rewards. It’s important to set in
your mind that this new intention of opening yourself to love again may
require breaking some habits. The Tarot will not tell you your future, it can
only offer you guidance. What you choose to do with the information is
entirely your call. Using the Tarot once is not going to make a new
relationship appear out of thin air unless you put in the work!
Changing your thoughts and energy is possible with consistent practice and
focus. Start building the habit of journaling and pull Tarot cards each week (or
even each day) so that you can be in constant communication with your
intuition. Remember, you have the power to shift your life and energy. The
Tarot is simply the GPS guiding you there.
As you work with the Tarot, you’ll grow your confidence in your own ability to
change your life. Doing this deep inner work will affect change in every aspect
of your life, not just the one you’re currently focused on. It’s an exciting and
empowering journey that taps you into a tremendous amount of inner
wisdom.
Concluding Thoughts...
Notice we haven’t asked questions like, ‘when will I meet my soulmate?’ or,
‘does so-and-so like me?’ Those questions don’t give you the ability to mould