Healing and hypnotherapy Volume 4, Special Mega Annual Issue , 15 June 2020 | Page 39

You can use the Tarot to get clear on your relationship needs and deal
 breakers. Even a single-card draw focused on this question could offer you a ton of insight. For each card you pull in answer to this question, write down statements related to each card that affirm something you need in a relationship. It’s not bad to want to be physically attracted to your partner or to want a partner who has already established stability in their life. If you’re working with a larger spread, again, consider the story the cards are coming together to tell. Setting standards for how you want to be treated in love is necessary! Read Tarot Regularly (Weekly or Even Daily!) Consistency is key when working with Tarot. Over time, you’ll notice you develop a unique relationship with your Tarot deck as you bond with it. Treat it with love and care and it will offer you huge rewards. It’s important to set in your mind that this new intention of opening yourself to love again may require breaking some habits. The Tarot will not tell you your future, it can only offer you guidance. What you choose to do with the information is entirely your call. Using the Tarot once is not going to make a new relationship appear out of thin air unless you put in the work! Changing your thoughts and energy is possible with consistent practice and focus. Start building the habit of journaling and pull Tarot cards each week (or even each day) so that you can be in constant communication with your intuition. Remember, you have the power to shift your life and energy. The Tarot is simply the GPS guiding you there. As you work with the Tarot, you’ll grow your confidence in your own ability to change your life. Doing this deep inner work will affect change in every aspect of your life, not just the one you’re currently focused on. It’s an exciting and empowering journey that taps you into a tremendous amount of inner wisdom. Concluding Thoughts... Notice we haven’t asked questions like, ‘when will I meet my soulmate?’ or, ‘does so-and-so like me?’ Those questions don’t give you the ability to mould