Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 4, Issue - 8, 1 February 2020 | Page 8

• I love you. • I hear you. • I’m sorry. • Thank you. • I forgive you. Make a habit of talking to your inner child. You could also communicate through journal work by asking your inner child a question, then writing down the response. 2. Look at pictures of yourself as a child. Go through old photo albums and rediscover what your younger self looked like. Let that image be burned into your brain because it will serve you well throughout the rest of your inner child work. You might even like to put photos of yourself next to your bedside table, in your wallet, or around the house just to remind yourself of your inner child’s presence. 3. Recreate what you loved to do as a child. Sit down and think about what you loved to do as a child. Maybe you liked climbing trees, playing with toy blocks, cuddling toy bears or eating warm porridge. Make time to include whatever activity you loved to do as a child in your present life. Through inner child work, people have told me that they’ve connected to sides of themselves that they never even knew existed as adults.  This discovery is truly life-changing.  It’s important that you make a habit of this “play time” and explore any embarrassment or silliness you feel towards it. It’s completely normal to feel a bit foolish at first, but it’s important to keep an open mind. 4. Do an inner journey. One of the most powerful ways to reconnect with your inner child to heal childhood traumas, is to do an inner journey. For beginners, I recommend two types of inner journeys: those done through meditation, and those done through visualisation. In order to do these inner journeys it is important that you first gain the trust of your inner child through the previous activities. Once you have developed a strong connection to your inner child, you can then ask it to reveal what earlier life circumstances created the trauma you’re struggling with today. 4