Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 4 Issue - 4, 1 October 2019 | Page 11

• • • • • • • • • • curiosity • • You tend to worry about everything You live a rushed and frantic life You struggle to slow down You have panic attacks Anxiety follows you throughout the day You tend to overthink everything You get stuck in repetitive cycles of thought You suffer from some form of trauma The world overwhelms you You approach new situations out of a place of fear rather than You feel unloved or unsupported by others You feel disconnected from your inner self Of course, I want to mention here that self-soothing isn’t a panacea and won’t solve all of the symptoms noted above. BUT I can guarantee that if you make self-soothing a regular practice you will experience some kind of benefit. The Benefits of Self-Soothing Everyone is different, but here are some benefits you may experience: • Greater ability to ‘hold yourself together’ • Feeling more supported and upheld • More grounded-ness • Deeper connection with your inner self • Enhanced self - love and concern • Increased ability to be mindful • Ability to pause and see the bigger picture • Getting out of your mind and into your body/senses • More connection with your true feelings and perspectives • Reduced physical ailments and illnesses • And of course … • Less stress and anxiety! Don’t take this list as being written-in-stone – you may very well find a surprising benefit that hasn’t been listed above because you experience the world uniquely! 7 Self-Soothing Practices For Beginners I’m not going to list any fancy visualisation or meditation techniques here, don’t worry. Self-soothing needs to come naturally, so I strongly encourage you to seek out what works for you. You are more than welcome to build off the list of suggestions I will explore below. A word of warning: there are healthy and unhealthy forms of self-soothing.