Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume - 3, Special Mega Annual Issue 15 June 2019 | Page 30

3. and absorb things very fast and k e e n l y, T h e i r p o w e r o f discernment is still at a very little level and they are open and susceptible to any suggestion or command since it is likely to get permanently itched in their ‘Sub- Conscious Memory, So its best to avoid planting negative suggestions at such tender age, for it will have a life long effect in their mind. This is a reason why habit formation takes place during this time cause what habit is planted in this age span helps in life time so all basic habits like hygiene routine, habit to sit and study, eating pattern, attraction to outdoors game once developed, in this age span is very effective for a life time. Things can be changed later as well but, with great difficulty, however, the impact upto 10 years age is very strong. And as children tend to interpret words and sound in their own unique imaginative way, so there is always the risk of a suggestion being interpreted by the child in a totally different way! Command over language : That is ; The suggestions and triggers we create must be very cautiously done. The therapist must be very well versed with the language and keep it positive under all circumstances. Any negative connotation must be avoided! Remember the child is absorbing every word you speak without filtering. A background in NLP is a great asset before you venture in to paediatric Hypnotherapy or the hypnotherapy for children. As NLP helps one to get a deep understanding about the power of words, intonation, tonality and its picturesque effect. Last but most significant and golden rule is to begin with “Let’s play a game” while working with children never ever let a child feel, you are there to ‘cure’ , ‘heal’ , or ‘treat’ for doing so you instantaneously make the child feel that there is something needed to be cured, healed or treated - thereby even before starting the therapy you end up undermining child’s confidence and sense of well being! 4. 5. 6. Reading out to children using hypnotherapy can be a fascinating 2