Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 3, Issue - 2, ( 1 August 2018) | Page 8

Wednesday, 1 August 2018
Perception and Expression
Wherever we turn we see, smell, hear or touch something and then we
perceive something and then this information get processed in our mind,
stored somewhere now finally we express it. And this is most interesting
aspect of human behavior at least for me… How we perceive, evaluate,
conclude, imagine and express.
For example somebody enters the room wearing perfume one person will
feel aha! beautiful smell and other might feel suffocated, similarly when
people are sad they react so differently like somebody cry, other one might
go in seclusion and somebody gets angry … one condition different
reactions.
Many people don’t react for a long time even on big things and one day
they retort on some small thing. Some people don’t react over person/thing/
event concerned instead they point somewhere else, means angry over A
releasing on B kind. Some people are not even aware of how they perceive
and react …like, when you question somebody; in their knowledge they’ve
already explained still you are asking question, when deep down they feel
you doubt them that’s why they react sharply and when you ask “why are
you shouting” person respond “I didn’t shout just told you normally” .
Sometimes our explanation or expression is entirely different from what we
have perceived and we think we are conveying as it is what we have
received. Lets see this case.
There was a group of friends (boys& girls) one boy’s (call him x) behavior
with a girl(y) was very nasty, everybody in group felt he can’t tolerate her.
During college, y got married (arranged by her parents). After college y
applied for a job in a company where x was already working, so when x
seen y in the company for job-interview he make sure she couldn’t get that
job. This entire episode sounds like this guy hates her when in reality he
was madly in love with her and because of his way of expression he lost
her, he didn’t want her in the same company, as she being in front of him all
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