Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 2, Issue 5, (November 1, 2017) | Page 21

3. Lisa shared, how her marriage fell apart in first few years itself, as there was always ‘Him’ in her mind and she felt like a caged bird counting days to be free. She even felt guilty in the sense that though there always are few silly differences and little conflicts in each marital relationship yet it’s the bonding over time that cements the relationship between spouses, which she could never do as she was too ‘Lost’ in the love she had for Robin. She told that her ex-husband with all his shortcomings was a nice person, yet it was probably her love and loss of Robin’s closeness that always made her bitter and to an extent even cruel towards all efforts made by her ex-husband towards mending their relationship and making her feel loved. The more he tried more resentment she felt, and finally came the day, when they signed the papers and parted their ways. 4. It was during this period of her marital turmoil that in a strange twist of fate the two lovers crossed path once again, but by then he had got married and had kids and family. It was during this phase that she got pregnant and decided to keep the his child, who now a teenager, is her world! He couldn’t come to be with her leaving his family, and even she tried her best to move-on with her life, keeping his son as the symbol of their love. 5. Lisa told that she had tried everything to get-over him; had been persuaded by her parents for a second marriage; even proposed by few wonderful well-meaning loving men, but she just was never able to move beyond him and her longing for him over years had grown each day, instead of having faded away with time. She told that even she