Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 2, Issue 4 October 2017 | Page 20

Sit Down Like Two Ships Passing If you are sitting, we recommend that you sit down with the chairs set like two ships passing each other. This position allows you to reach all points with ease without invading the personal space of the person being treated. Explain Before and During Always explain what you are about to do and show the points on yourself,
 to get an OK from the person you are about to treat to touch these points on them. If their eyes are closed during the session let them know when you move your hands by saying for example “Now I am going to touch your forehead.” so they feel safe and can relax without being surprised at your touch. Learn the science of stress and trauma, as explained in Understanding Stress (page 117). Eyes Open or Closed It is fine for a person to receive the treatment with their eyes open, but there can be a greater effect if their eyes are closed, since it allows them to relax and focus on their internal sensations. Also, you can check the eyelids for fluttering, which is a good sign of relaxation. Be Humble Never promise any specific results before a session. Every person is unique and sometimes the results of a session show up a day or a week later, depending on the stimulus required to trigger the stress reaction. You could say: “If you want to experience a method that may allow you to relax, I can show it to you.” “I know a method for relaxing emotional distress that can be useful even with severe traumatic experiences. I use it for myself at times, do you want me to show you?”