FREEDOM TO BE
What is FREEDOM TO BE and do we really need it …?
I ’ ve few cases in hypnotherapy where physical ailment was because those people were not being themselves , hiding and curbing their emotions , likes and dislikes because , sometimes they don ’ t want to hurt others and sometimes because of their own inferiority complexes .
People who don ’ t want to hurt others are the people who really want to access this basic right “ freedom to be ” however they are scared of end result … ‘ guilt ’.
The moment they express themselves , other people start showing them how everyone ’ s life will get effected & how they are responsible for everything wrong happening in life of people around them . So this category get really scared to express themselves that leads to maladies like heart disease , brain stroke and cancer etc .
Now second category : people with inferiority complex … …… they don ’ t want this freedom to be , and they don ’ t want this freedom for anyone .
For them this is some kind of sin TO BE YOURSELF . This category is creator of first category . These people are really scared of giving their opinion and telling what they really like or dislike because these people are always worried about what others will think about Me , what if I ’ m not happ . enough and In , what if I am not following the trend . So these “ WHAT Ifs ” make their lives miserable & leads to many serious diseases .
“ What other people will think about me ” is the biggest illness . To get rid of it first think , people who are criticizing you , do they ever come to your aid whenever you are in need , if answer is no then don ’ t waste your time and energy on them , if answer is yes but they always criticize you then give it a