could be work, money, financial progress, responsibilities, family, kids, friends, freedom, enjoyment.
There can be fear now, of not being loved. Frustration, as not spending time together. Anger is there, as you wanted life to be, does not remain same. So on.
The need is to become emotionally intelligent. Adding on new rules in life, adds on more worthiness in life. Valentine day, birthdays, anniversary are the days to revive your love. Try to recapture the moments, breathe in the rules which you set for each-other. Do not omit the old rules which made you be in resourceful state, re-imprint the rules which brings you in un-resourceful states by those of resourceful state.
Hema Goyal
Soft skill Trainer Image Consultant
Master practioner and Coach of Neuro Linguistic Proggraming( NLP) and Subconcious Re- Imprinting Email: hemasays @ gmail. com