From The Desk
As is proved development of conscious brain is due to controlling our primitive response to any unwanted situation ' Flight or Fight ". When we did not control them we live the event and forget about it . But now we control them and then ponder over it . By not reacting either way , we get power to exercise control over our life to achieve desired goal .
Yet , here lies the conflict - Whatever we desire ; is it actually what we need ? - Whatever control we show during an unpleasant situation ; eventually we end up evaluating that . What we did was right ? could we responded in some other manner to make it more effective and that is how we move towards growth of brain and more of learned behavior than spontaneous one . but this repetitive evaluation creates repressed memory , so instead of forgetting we remember those events and keep changing responses in imagination and strengthen the memories . These repressed memories surface as many kind of psychosomatic and sometimes physical diseases .
So what is the cure ? All fairy tales ' has one common cure " True loves ' kiss "…….. ………:)) :)) :)) It can cure anything , break the charm of any magical spell which keeps us from seeing the truth . It can bring back beauty , harmony , and happiness .
The pragmatic in us says ….. But fairy tales are just that ; fairy tales …….. or is it so ……. Is it merely a feel good factor or there is something deeper in it !!
True Love = Unconditional Love = Care to the extent where I is being superseded for the other one or say dissolved . Their happiness , nurture and care become priority even before ourselves . Mothers out there ………. we know how it feels .
Those of us who have this connection with a complete stranger with perfect reciprocation and went on to become life partner and remain so , understands the beauty and healing of this potent magic . When you are being loved to that extent and you reciprocate it with same intensity ' Healing begins '.
As researches says : Love boost immunity . Love increases Life span .
O Seekar : if your heart is not set in me completely reach me through Meditation and Yog .
SrimadBhagvadgeeta " Chaptor 12- verse 9 "